Life and Death of Mr. Badman

Atten.  What kind of oaths would she have?

Wise.  Why damn her, and sink her, and the like.

Atten.  These are provoking things.

Wise.  So they are: but God doth not altogether let such things goe unpunished in this life.  Something of this I have shewed you already, and will here give you one or two Instances more.

There lived, saith one, 497 in the year 1551. in a city of Savoy, a man who was a monstrous Curser and Swearer, and though he was often admonished and blamed for it, yet would he by no means mend his manners.  At length a great plague happening in the City, he withdrew himself into a Garden, where being again admonished to give over his wickedness, he hardned his heart more, Swearing, Blaspheming God, and giving himself to the Devil: And immediately the Devil snatched him up suddenly, his wife and kinswoman looking on, and carried him quite away.  The Magistrates advertised hereof, went to the place and examined the Woman, who justified the truth of it.

Also at Oster in the Dutchy of Magalapole, (saith Mr. Clark) a wicked Woman, used in her cursing to give herself body and soul to the Devil, and being reproved for it, still continued the same; till (being at a Wedding-Feast) the Devil came in person, and carried her up into the Air, with most horrible outcries and roarings: And in that sort carried her round about the Town, that the Inhabitants were ready to dye for fear: And by and by he tore her in four pieces, leaving her four quarters in four several high-wayes; and then brought her Bowels to the Marriage-feast, and threw them upon the Table before the Maior of the Town, saying, Behold, these dishes of meat belong to thee, whom the like destruction waiteth for, if thou dost not amend thy wicked life.

Atten.  Though God forbears to deal thus with all men that thus rend and tare his Name, and that immediate Judgments do not overtake them; yet he makes their lives by other Judgments bitter to them, does he not?

Wise.  Yes, yes.  And for proof, I need goe no further than to this Badman and his wife; for their railing, and cursing, and swearing ended not in words: They would fight and fly at each other, and that like Cats and Dogs.  But it must be looked upon as the hand and Judgment of God upon him for his villany; he had an honest woman before, but she would not serve his turn, and therefore God took her away, and gave him one as bad as himself.  Thus that measure that he meted to his first wife, this last did mete to him again.  And this is a punishment, wherewith sometimes God will punish wicked men.  So said Amos to Amaziah: Thy wife shall be an Harlot in the City. 498  With this last wife Mr. Badman lived a pretty while; but, as I told you before, in a most sad and hellish manner.  And now he would bewail his first wifes death: not of love that he had to her Godliness, for that he could never abide, but for that she used alwayes to keep home, whereas this would goe abroad; his first wife was also honest, and true to that Relation, but this last was a Whore of her Body: The first woman loved to keep things together, but this last would whirl them about as well as he: The first would be silent when he chid, and would take it patiently when he abused her, but this would give him word for word, blow for blow, curse for curse; so that now Mr. Badman had met with his match: 499 God had a mind to make him see the baseness of his own life, in the wickedness of his wives. 500  But all would not do with Mr. Badman, he would be Mr. Badman still: This Judgment did not work any reformation upon him, no, not to God nor man.

Atten.  I warrant you that Mr. Badman thought when his wife was dead, that next time he would match far better.

Wise.  What he thought I cannot tell, but he could not hope for it in this match.  For here he knew himself to be catcht, he knew that he was by this woman intangled, and would therefore have gone back again, but could not.  He knew her, I say, to be a Whore before, and therefore could not promise himself a happy life with her.  For he or she that will not be true to their own soul, will neither be true to husband nor wife.  And he knew that she was not true to her own soul, and therefore could not expect she should be true to him but Solomon says, An whore is a deep pit, and Mr. Badman found it true.  For when she had caught him in her pit, she would never leave him till she had got him to promise her Marriage; and when she had taken him so far, she forced him to marry indeed.  And after that, they lived that life that I have told you.

Atten.  But did not the neighbours take notice of this alteration that Mr. Badman had made?

Wise.  Yes; and many of his Neighbours, yea, many of those that were carnal said, 501 ’Tis a righteous Judgment of God upon him, for his abusive carriage and language to his other wife: for they were all convinced that she was a vertuous woman, and he, vile wretch, had killed her, I will not say, with, but with the want of kindness.

Atten.  And how long I pray did they live thus together?

Wise.  Some fourteen or sixteen years, even untill (though she also brought somthing with her) they had sinned all away, and parted as poor as Howlets. 502  And, in reason, how could it be otherwise? he would have his way, and she would have hers; he among his companions, and she among hers; he with his Whores, and she with her Rogues; and so they brought their Noble to Nine-pence.

Atten.  Pray of what disease did Mr. Badman die, for now I perceive we are come up to his death?

Wise.  I cannot so properly say that he died of one disease, 503 for there were many that had consented, and laid their heads together to bring him to his end.  He was dropsical, he was consumptive, he was surfeited, was gouty, and, as some say, he had a tang of the Pox in his bowels.  Yet the Captain of all these men of death that came against him to take him away, was the Consumption, for ’twas that that brought him down to the grave.

Atten.  Although I will not say, but the best men may die of a consumption, a dropsie, or a surfeit; yea, that these may meet upon a man to end him: yet I will say again, that many times these diseases come through mans inordinate use of things.  Much drinking brings dropsies, consumptions, surfeits, and many other diseases; and I doubt, that Mr. Badman’s death did come by his abuse of himself in the use of lawfull and unlawfull things.  I ground this my sentence upon that report of his life that you at large have given me.

Wise.  I think verily that you need not call back your sentence; for ’tis thought by many, that by his Cups and his Queans he brought himself to this his destruction: he was not an old man when he dyed, nor was he naturally very feeble, but strong, and of a healthy complexion: Yet, as I said, he moultered away, and went, when he set a going, rotten to his Grave.  And that which made him stink when he was dead, I mean, that made him stink in his Name and Fame, was, that he died with a spice of the foul disease upon him: A man whose life was full of sin, and whose death was without repentance.

Atten.  These were blemishes sufficient to make him stink indeed.

Wise.  They were so, and they did do it.  No man could speak well of him when he was gone. 504  His Name rotted above ground, as his Carkass rotted under.  And this is according to the saying of the wise man: The memory of the just is blessed, but the name of the wicked shall rot. 505

This Text, in both the parts of it, was fulfilled upon him and the woman that he married first.  For her Name still did flourish, though she had been dead almost seventeen years; but his began to stink and rot, before he had been buried seventeen dayes.

Atten.  That man that dieth with a life full of sin, and with an heart void of repentance, although he should die of the most Golden disease (if there were any that might be so called) I will warrant him his Name shall stink, and that in Heaven and Earth.

Wise.  You say true; and therefore doth the name of Cain, Pharaoh, Saul, Judas, and the Pharisees, though dead thousands of years agoe, stink as fresh in the nostrils of the world as if they were but newly dead.

Atten.  I do fully acquiesce with you in this.  But, Sir, since you have charged him with dying impenitent, pray let me see how you will prove it: 506 not that I altogether doubt it, because you have affirmed it, but yet I love to have proof for what men say in such weighty matters.

Wise.  When I said, he died without repentance, I meant, so far as those that knew him, could judge, when they compared his Life, the Word, and his Death together.

Atten.  Well said, they went the right way to find out whether he had, that is, did manifest that he had repentance or no.  Now then shew me how they did prove he had none?

Wise.  So I will: And first, 507 this was urged to prove it.  He had not in all the time of his sickness, a sight and sence of his sins, but was as secure, and as much at quiet, as if he had never sinned in all his life.

Atten.  I must needs confess that this is a sign he had none.  For how can a man repent of that of which he hath neither sight nor sence?  But ’tis strange that he had neither sight nor sence of sin now, when he had such a sight and sence of his evil before: I mean when he was sick before.

Wise.  He was, as I said, as secure now, as if he had been as sinless as an Angel; though all men knew what a sinner he was, for he carried his Sins in his Forehead.  His debauched Life was read and known of all men; but his Reputation was read and known of no man; for, as I said, he had none.  And for ought I know, the reason he had no sence of his sins now, was because he profited not by that sence that he had of them before.  He liked not to retain that knowledge of God then, that caused his sins to come to remembrance: Therefore God gave him up now to a reprobate mind, to hardness and stupidity of Spirit; and so was that Scripture fulfilled upon him, He hath blinded their eyes.  And that, Let their eyes be darkned that they may not see. 508  Oh! for a man to live in sin, and to go out of the world without Repentance for it, is the saddest Judgement that can overtake a man.

Atten.  But, Sir, although both you and I have consented that 509 without a sight and sence of sin there can be no Repentance, yet that is but our bare Say-so; let us therefore now see if by the Scripture we can make it good.

Wise.  That is easily done.  The three thousand that were converted, (Acts the second,) repented not, till they had sight and sence of their sins: 510 Paul repented not till he had sight and sence of his sins: the Jailor repented not till he had sight and sence of his sins: nor could they.  For of what should a man repent?  The Answer is, of Sin.  What is it to Repent of sin?  The answer is, To be sorry for it, to turn from it. 511  But how can a man be sorry for it, that has neither sight nor sence of it.  David did, not only commit sins, but abode impenitent for them, untill Nathan the Prophet was sent from God to give him a sight and sence of them; 512 and then, but not till then, he indeed repented of them.  Job, in order to his Repentance, cries unto God, Shew me wherefore thou contendest with me.  And again, That which I see not teach thou me, I have born chastisement, I will not offend any more: 513 That is, not in what I know, for I will repent of it; nor yet in what I know not, when thou shalt shew me it.

Also Ephraims Repentance was after he was turned to the sight and sence of his sins, and after he was instructed about the evil of them. 514

Atten.  These are good testimonies of this truth, and doe (if matter of fact, with which Mr. Badman is charged, be true), prove indeed that he did not repent, but as he lived, so he dyed in his sin: For without Repentance a man is sure to dye in his sin; for they will lie down in the dust with him, 515 rise at the Judgement with him, hang about his Neck like Cords and Chains when he standeth at the Barre of Gods Tribunal, and goe with him too when he goes away from the Judgment-seat, with a Depart from me ye cursed into everlasting fire, prepared for the Devil and his Angels; and there shall fret and gnaw his Conscience, because they will be to him a never-dying worm. 516

Wise.  You say well, and I will add a word or two more to what I have said: Repentance, as it is not produced without a sight and sence of sin, so every sight and sence of sin cannot produce it: I mean, every sight and sence of sin cannot 517 produce that Repentance, that is Repentance unto salvation; repentance never to be repented of.  For it is yet fresh before us, that Mr. Badman had a sight and sence of sin, in that fit of sickness that he had before, but it dyed without procuring any such godly fruit; as was manifest by his so soon returning with the Dog to his Vomit.  Many people think also that Repentance stands in Confession of sin only, but they are very much mistaken: For Repentance, as was said before, is a being sorry for, and a turning from transgression to God by Jesus Christ.  Now, if this be true, that every sight and sence of sin will not produce Repentance, then Repentance cannot be produced there where there is no sight and sence of sin.  That every sight and sence of sin will not produce repentance, to wit, the godly repentance that we are speaking of, is manifest in Cain, Pharaoh, Saul and Judas, who all of them had sence, great sence of sin, but none of them repentance unto life.

Now I conclude, that Mr. Badman did die impenitent, and so a death most miserable.

Atten.  But pray now, before we conclude our discourse of Mr. Badman, give me another proof of his dying in his sins.

Wise.  Another proof is this. 518  He did not desire a sight and sence of sins, that he might have repentance for them.  Did I say he did not desire it, I will add, he greatly desired to remain in his security: and that I shall prove by that which follows.  First, he could not endure that any man, now, should talk to him of his sinfull life, and yet that was the way to beget a sight and sence of sin, and so of repentance from it in his soul.  But, I say, he could not endure such discourse.  Those men that did offer to talk unto him of his ill-spent Life, they were as little welcome to him in the time of his last sickness, as was Elijah when he went to meet with Ahab, as he went down to take possession of Naboths Vineyard.  Hast thou found me, said Ahab, O mine enemy? 519  So would Mr. Badman say in his heart to and of those that thus did come to him, though indeed they came even of love, to convince him of his evil life, that he might have repented thereof, and have obtained mercy.

Atten.  Did good men then goe to see him in his last sickness?

Wise.  Yes: Those that were his first wifes acquaintance, they went to see him, and to talk with, and to him, if perhaps he might now, at last, bethink himself, and cry to God for mercy.

Atten.  They did well to try now at last if they could save his soul from Hell: But pray how can you tell that he did not care for the company of such?

Wise.  Because of the differing Carriage that he had for them, from what he had when his old carnal companions came to see him: When his old Campanions came to see him, he would stir up himself as much as he could both by words and looks, to signifie they were welcome to him; he would also talk with them freely, and look pleasantly upon them, though the talk of such could be none other but such as David said, carnal men would offer to him, when they came to visit him in his sickness: If he comes to see me, says he, he speaketh vanity, his heart gathereth iniquity to itself. 520  But these kind of talks, I say, Mr. Badman better brooked, than he did the company of better men.

But I will more particularly give you a Character 521 of his carriage to good men (and good talk) when they came to see him.

1.  When they were come, he would seem to fail in his spirits at the sight of them.

2.  He would not care to answer them to any of those questions that they would at times put to him, to feel what sence he had of sin, death, Hell, and Judgment: But would either say nothing, or answer them by way of evasion, or else by telling of them he was so weak and spent that he could not speak much.

3.  He would never shew forwardness to speak to, or talk with them, but was glad when they held their tongues.  He would ask them no question about his state and another world, or how he should escape that damnation that he had deserved.

4.  He had got a haunt at last to bid his wife and keeper, when these good people attempted to come to see him, to tell them that he was asleep or inclining to sleep, or so weak for want thereof, that he could not abyde any noyse.  And so they would serve them time after time, till at last they were discouraged from coming to see him any more.

5.  He was so hardned, now, in this time of his sickness, that he would talk, when his companions came unto him, to the disparagement of those good men (and of their good doctrine too) that of love did come to see him, and that did labour to convert him.

6.  When these good men went away from him, he would never say, Pray when will you be pleased to come again, for I have a desire to more of your company, and to hear more of your good instruction?  No not a word of that, but when they were going would scarce bid them drink, or say, Thank you for your good company, and good instruction.

7.  His talk in his sickness with his companions, would be of the World, as Trades, Houses, Lands, great Men, great Titles, great places, outward Prosperity, or outward Adversity, or some such carnal thing.

By all which I conclude, that he did not desire a sence and sight of his sin, that he might repent and be saved.

Atten.  It must needs be so as you say, if these things be true that you have asserted of him.  And I do the rather believe them, because I think you dare not tell a lie of the dead.

Wise.  I was one of them that went to him, and that beheld his carriage and manner of way, and this is a true relation of it that I have given you.

Atten.  I am satisfied.  But pray if you can, shew me now by the Word, what sentence of God doth pass upon such men?

Wise.  Why, the man that is thus averse to repentance, that desires not to hear of his sins, that he might repent and be saved; is said to be a man that saith unto God, Depart from me, for I desire not the knowledge of thy wayes. 522  He is a man that sayes in his heart and with his actions, I have loved strangers, (sins) and after them I will goe.  He is a man that shuts his eyes, stops his ears, and that turneth his spirit against God.  Yea he is the man that is at enmity with God, and that abhorres him with his soul. 523

Atten.  What other signe can you give me that Mr. Badman died without repentance?

Wise.  Why, he did never heartily cry to God for mercy all the time of his affliction. 524  True, when sinking fits, stitches, or pains took hold upon him, then he would say as other carnal men use to do, Lord help me, Lord strengthen me, Lord deliver me, and the like: But to cry to God for mercy, that he did not, but lay, as I hinted before, as if he never had sinned.

Atten.  That is another bad sign indeed; for crying to God for mercy, is one of the first signs of repentance.  When Paul lay repenting of his sin, upon his bed, the Holy Ghost said of him, Behold he prayes. 525  But he that hath not the first signs of repentance, ’tis a sign he hath none of the other, and so indeed none at all.  I do not say, but there may be crying, where there may be no sign of repentance.  They cryed, says David, to the Lord, but he answered them not; 526 but that he would have done, if their cry had been the fruit of repentance.  But, I say, if men may cry, and yet have no repentance, be sure, they have none, that cry not at all.  It is said in Job, They cry not when he bindeth them; 527 that is, because they have no repentance; no repentance, no cryes; false repentance, false cryes; true repentance, true cryes.

Wise.  I know that it is as possible for a man to forbear crying that hath repentance, as it is for a man to forbear groaning that feeleth deadly pain.  He that looketh into the Book of Psalms, (where repentance is most lively set forth even in its true and proper effects,) shall there find, that crying, strong crying, hearty crying, great crying, and uncessant crying, hath been the fruits of repentance: (But none of this had this Mr. Badman, therefore he dyed in his sins.)

That Crying is an inseparable effect of repentance, is seen in these Scriptures.  Have mercy upon me, O God, according to the multitude of thy tender mercies, blot out my transgressions.  O Lord, rebuke me not in thine anger, neither chasten me in thy hot displeasure.  Have mercy upon me, O Lord, for I am weak.  O Lord, heal me for my bones are vexed.  My soul is also vexed, but thou, O Lord, how long: Return, O Lord, deliver my soul: O save me for thy mercies sake: O Lord, rebuke me not in thy wrath, neither chasten me in thy hot displeasure; for thine arrows stick fast in me, and thy hand presseth me sore.  There is no soundness in my flesh, because of thine anger, neither is there any rest in my bones, because of my sin.  For mine iniquities are gone over mine head, as an heavy burthen, they are too heavy for me.  My wounds stink and are corrupt; because of my foolishness.  I am troubled, I am bowed down greatly, I goe mourning all the day long.  My loyns are filled with a loathsom disease, and there is no soundness in my flesh.  I am feeble, and sore broken, I have roared by reason of the disquietness of my heart. 528

I might give you a great number more of the holy sayings of good men, whereby they express how they were, what they felt, and whether they cryed or no, when repentance was wrought in them.  Alas, alas, it is as possible for a man, when the pangs of Guilt are upon him to forbear praying, as it is for a woman when pangs of travel are upon her to forbear crying.  If all the world should tell me that such a man hath repentance, yet if he is not a praying man, I should not be perswaded to believe it.

Atten.  I know no reason why you should: for there is nothing can demonstrate that such a man hath it.  But pray Sir, what other sign have you, by which you can prove that Mr. Badman died in his sins, and so in a state of damnation?

Wise.  I have this to prove it. 529  Those who were his old sinfull companions in the time of his health, were those whose company and carnal talk he most delighted in, in the time of his sickness.  I did occasionally hint this before, but now I make it an argument of his want of grace: for where there is indeed a work of Grace in the heart, that work doth not only change the heart, thoughts and desires, but the conversation also; yea conversation and company too.  When Paul had a work of grace in his soul, he assayed to Joyn himself to the Disciples.  He was for his old companions in their abominations no longer: he was now a Disciple, and was for the company of Disciples.  And he was with them coming in and going out in Jerusalem. 530

Atten.  I thought something when I heard you make mention of it before.  Thought I, this is a shrewd sign that he had not grace in his heart.  Birds of a feather, thought I, will flock together: If this man was one of Gods children, he would heard with Gods children, his delight would be with, and in the company of Gods children.  As David said, I am a companion of all them that fear thee, and of them that keep thy precepts. 531

Wise.  You say well, for what fellowship hath he that believeth with an Infidel?  And although it be true, that all that joyn to the godly are not godly, yet they that shall inwardly choose the company of the ungodly and open profane, rather than the company of the godly, as Mr. Badman did; surely are not godly men, but profane.  He was, as I told you, out of his element, when good men did come to visit him, but then he was where he would be, when he had his vain companions about him.  Alas! grace, as I said, altereth all, heart, life, company, and all; for by it the heart and man is made new: and a new heart, a new man, must have objects of delight that are new, and like himself: Old things are passed away; Why?  For all things are become new. 532  Now if all things are become new, to wit, heart, mind, thoughts, desires, and delights, it followeth by consequence that the company must be answerable: hence it is said, That they that believed were together; that they went to their own company; that they were added to the Church; that they were of one heart and of one soul; 533 and the like.  Now if it be objected that Mr. Badman was sick, and so could not goe to the godly, yet he had a tongue in his head, and could, had he had an heart, have spoken to some to call or send for the godly to come to him.  Yea, he would have done so; yea the company of all others, specially his fellow sinners, would, even in every appearance of them before him, have been a burden and a grief unto him.  His heart and affection standing bent to good, good companions would have suited him best.  But his Companions were his old Associates, his delight was in them, therefore his heart and soul were yet ungodly.