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—Love, understanding, respect. To be a companion in good and bad times. (Isael)
— I did it. Too bad I lost my loved ones so early. (Philliphe)
Inspiring tears stream from Philliphe's eyes wetting his entire face. The fact thrills everyone who comes to console him. Here was an example of a battling man struck by fatality.
—What do you want me to say? You know it was not anyone's fault. It had to happen. (Isael)
—The important thing is that you have not given up on life and that you are here to learn a little about this pain. (Rafael)
— We will learn together with God and in the end the goal is to overcome this even if you do not forget. (Uriel)
—Strength, my friend. (The Seer)
—We're here. (Renato)
—Thank you all. Can we take a break? (Philliphe)
—Of course. What do you think? (Isael)
—Yes. (The others)
The group stopped a bit and took the time to hydrate themselves, eat a snack, wander around the square and listen to a song. The next family-related subitems promised great discoveries and would enrich "God’s code" that showed some of the invisible God present in all. Let's continue then.
2.2-Marriage
The group return to the starting point in the square after a brief rest. With all gathered, the chat is resumed.
—What family sub-theme does you suggest to start a new discussion? (Asks Rafael)
— How about we talk about marriage? (The seer suggested)
—I think it's good. Do you guys agree? (Rafael)
—Yes. (The others)
—With the word, the seer. (Rafael)
— What are the requirements to achieve happiness in your marriage Isael? (The Seer)
—First, choose the right person. Afterwards, cultivate the relationship with love, respect and understanding. I think this is enough. (Isael)
— What do you think of current relationships where separation has become commonplace? (Philliphe)
— Advances of modernity. Every day, the demands on each other have become greater and tolerance has diminished what is a great pity. (Isael)
— Is it possible to be happy even without being married? (Asks Renato)
— Of course, young man. Happiness lies within ourselves and not in the other. Being alone is just a detail. (Isael)
— How to know if I'm going to be a good father? (The Seer)
— Easy. If you are a good son, you will be a good father. (Isael)
— I agree. It's a matter of values. (Philliphe)
— Let each of us give the example that in the future we will reap the fruits of our efforts with a prosperous family blessed by Yahweh. (Rafael)
— Unity is strength! Search for your fellow man, says Yahweh. (Uriel)
— In my case, despite the terrible example I received from my father, I know that if I ever marry I will not disappoint my children. I will treat all with justice, love and respect, things I have learned from the guardian, my foster mother. (Renato)
—Congratulations to you, young man. This is a rarity. (Isael)
— And how it is! My father also beat me for some reason because I had learned this from his parents. However, I will not follow this example because it educates with dialogue and not with violence. (The Seer)
—It depends. Have you ever been a father? Have your children push the limits and challenge you? (Inquiry Philliphe)
— No, I never was. But does anything solve with aggression? (The Seer)
—Not aggression. But sometimes spanking is a holy remedy. In my own experience. (Philliphe)
— Not a good solution. You will only cause fear in your children. (Intervened Raphael)
— In addition, small children do not understand much of values. It takes patience. (Uriel)
— That's what I say. You should never hit a child for any reason. Why not hit someone your own size? Mistreating children is easy and frustrating. (The Seer)
— Got it. You really are right. I made a mistake with my children thinking I was doing good. (Philliphe confessed)
— It's all right. It's over. The important thing now is to move on, rebuild life and I see that you are willing to do so. (Isael)
—I hope so. (Philliphe)
— You have children, your Isael? (The Seer)
—No, I have not. (Isael)
— If you had, what minimum requirements did your son-in-law or daughter-in-law have to have? (The Seer)
—First, my son's love. Also, be a hard worker, honest, friendly and out of the dark. (Isael)
—Damn it! How much demand! Kkk. (Laughter) (The Seer)
—But that's how it is. In order to achieve a healthy relationship, this is the minimum. Ever thought your daughter-in-law or son-in-law would be angry with you and harm you with spiritual work? Of bad people I want distance, that is, each in its place. (Isael)
— You're quite right. You shall not seek evil, and you shall have the shadow of God within your reach, thus says Yahweh. (Rafael)
—And more: "Evil is a wound that bleeds and has no cure". (Complementary Uriel)
— Even so, we must remember the power of free will. We can advise, but never interfere with the decision of our older children. (Isael)
— And what a Maktub! I learned from the seer. (Philliphe recalled)
— We must also be authors of our own history, helping both types of destiny. Never mere spectators! (Renato recalled)
— God says also: Take your yoke and your staff and follow me. This is what really matters to be happy being married or not. (The seer concluded)
— Stop of five minutes for reflection. Holy God and strong God continue to inspire us to write his “ Code”. Let's go guys? (Isael)
—Yes. (The others)
In this time span, Rafael, Uriel and Isael meet and share secrets. What would be of more interest in the next subitems? Keep following, readers.
2.3- Expenses
The pause ends and the group meets again in the same place as always, on the benches of the square. This time it is Uriel Ikiriri who takes the floor initially:
—We'll talk about family expenses now. Who is eligible to ask the first question to Isael?
— I. I will speak from my personal experience. Since when I was very humble, I consider this life as very fleeting always making a point of spending all my salary until the end of the month. Of course, I've never wasted my financial power with nonsense, but I've always looked for alternatives to enjoy my work. Would this be a correct attitude? (Philliphe)
— This is a view followed by some people and cannot be conceptualized as correct or not. I'd say you're closer to the first one. However, I would advise the family to keep at least ten percent of their income as a reserve because you never know when we will need it. Life takes many turns and is unpredictable. (Isael)
— I got it. Thank you. (Philliphe)
— In what activities would you suggest concentrating a family's expenses? (The Seer)
— It depends on the financial situation of each one of them. There are some who can only meet their basic needs and others who cannot. I would recommend for a middle-class family focus on food, health, education, leisure, transportation, donations and reservations. Being that for these last two ten percent for each. (Isael)
—It's ok. (The Seer)
—Do you think the formation of an important personal patrimony? (Renato)
—No way. Remember what the master said: "Gather no treasures in the land where thieves rob, and moth and rust erode, but in heaven, for there is their eternal abode." A family having a roof to live, food on the table and a life with a harmony is the essential and nothing can afford it. (Isael)
—The treasures in the sky are only achieved with a great dedication to the neighbor. Whenever possible it is good to help those who need it. (Complemented Rafael)
—With money? (Renato)
— Not only that. With some advice, with support, give yourself without waiting for a return. Anyway, being more human is what most people are missing. (Rafael)
— I confess I was selfish. When I was with my family, I only thought about her and I did not care about the others. Was I punished for this? (Philliphe)
— Do not say that. God always believes that the human being can improve and impose nothing. "God is not a hangman, he is a father." What happened was a fatality and this moment that you are living should be used for reflection, for the evolution of your soul. (Uriel)
— Like what happened to me on my dark night. It was a time of learning and when I was prepared, God acted and resurrected me in every way. (The Seer)
— Then teach me, Son of God! Brings back my light, my peace and tranquility. I want to wake up and say to myself: I am happy! Even though I never forget my personal tragedies. (Pleaded Philliphe)
Philliphe did not restrain his tears. Every now and then he was discovering a world he had not even imagined before the tragedy. Still, he was in a hurry to overcome his inner wounds that were not yet healed. His commotion was such that it thrilled everyone present.
The seer came close, embraced him firmly, and the others followed his example, making the embrace six times more. When he had calmed down a little, the others left, leaving only the seer at his side. The conversation was then resumed.
— What I can do for you, you can be sure I'll make you my friend Philliphe. Together, we will discover God and he will comfort you. Have faith! (The Seer)
—Thank you very much. You're the most special person I've ever met. (Philliphe)
— Thank you for sharing your pain with us. When we do that, it gets less heavy. (The Seer)
—Can we continue, then? (Rafael)
—Yes. (The others)
—What would you say to a family that cannot control their spending, how to achieve stability? (The Seer)
—Look, you have to have the least sense to avoid waste. If you only get X, just spend up to x, give it to anyone who hurts. However, many do not control their impulsivity that has even turned disease. (Isael)
— I'm a bit of that. I confess. Sometimes I plan to buy two pants and two shirts and I leave with five of each. It looks like it's stronger than you. (The Seer)
—Normal. Others are even worse. To control this is that it is the art of the few. (Isael)
— I also suffer from the same problem. How to control? Is there a way? (Philliphe was interested)
—Some. Not use a credit card, take only a limited amount of money, be demanding on yourself, among other things. (Isael)
— Poh! What a torture! I give up! (Philliphe)
— I also though I do not use a credit card. (The Seer)
— Isael is exaggerating. The important thing is to have a good mental attitude, cautious. (Rafael)
— If you have difficulty, seek a psychologist, psychoanalyst or psychiatrist. They are professionals who can help. (Uriel)
— Planning! (Isael concluded)
—Personal, I'm hungry. Let's stop again? (Renato suggested)
—Can be? (Asked Rafael)
— Yes. (The others)
— Let's eat and then we resume. (Rafael)
The team got up from the seats and headed to the nearest restaurant, across from the square. Renato had a great idea because everyone was really hungry. Upon arriving at the establishment, they choose a table with chairs unoccupied and when they find the menu to evaluate. What would fate reveal in the next few moments? God’s code for men and angels was slowly building and promising great surprises. Keep going always! Towards knowledge.
2.4- Memory
Having chosen the meal (couscous with jerky), the group waits a little in total interaction with each other. Moments later, they are served and the conversation is still lively.
