Essential Oils for Lovers: How to use aromatherapy to revitalize your sex life

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Essential Oils for Lovers: How to use aromatherapy to revitalize your sex life
Maggie Tisserand

If you’ve ever wondered how to keep your romance alive you need to look no further. This inspiring book is a treasure trove of erotic wisdom – aromatic recipes, potent aphrodisiacs and sensual massage techniques that have stood the test of time.Includes:the use of essential oils since ancient times• how to prepare sexy massage oils and remedies• how aromatic oils and massage can enhance your sex life and help with sexual difficulties• new ways of soothing, relaxing and exciting your partner with touch and fragrance• how to beautify your skin and body with luxurious oilsThe art of driving your partner wild is at your fingertips!

ESSENTIAL OILS

FOR LOVERS

A sensual guide

to aromatherpy

Maggie Tisserand

Copyright (#ulink_78d7d7c8-20fe-5141-9fcd-79a83a4dee94)

Thorsons

An imprint of HarperCollinsPublishers

1 London Bridge Street

London SE1 9GF

First published by Thorsons 1993

as Aromatherapy for Lovers

This edition 1999

© Maggie Tisserand 1993

Maggie Tisserand asserts the moral right to be identified as the author of this work

A catalogue record for this book is available from the British Library

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Source ISBN: 9780722537954

Ebook edition © November 2017 ISBN 9780008286484

Version 2017-11-16

Dedication (#ulink_c5731ae5-ffcf-52c7-b073-88c248ac3f80)

This book is dedicated to the lover within.

Contents

Cover (#u80040870-47a0-57a6-b1b9-b802e81da4f5)

Title Page (#ub44bfef0-335a-55eb-ad16-4cf2b32042a3)

Copyright (#ulink_48da99e1-6ca5-57a1-b98c-6a36c0ab3b0f)

Dedication (#ulink_69180c42-9faa-53dc-8b11-92bed4b399db)

Introduction (#ulink_76d1590a-4244-53f4-888a-7f81bc3fe01c)

chapter one AROMATHERAPY FOR LIFE (#ulink_40b35163-b03c-524a-8df2-bdaf39a69e76)

chapter two AN EROTIC HISTORY

chapter three LASTING IMPRESSIONS

chapter four MASSAGE WITH ESSENTIAL OILS

chapter five BEAUTY CARE

chapter six ACHIEVING SEXUAL FULFILMENT

chapter seven AROMA AND SEXUAL RESPONSE

chapter eight ESSENTIAL RECIPES

Footnotes

Glossary of Oils: Their Common and Latin Names

Further Reading

Bibliography

Index

Acknowledgements

About the Publisher

INTRODUCTION (#ulink_127292a5-6426-5801-9102-be291f0b9444)

‘The love of two pure lovers consists of desire and in mutual pleasing. In it nothing can be worthwhile unless their will be equal.’

JAUFRÉ RUDEL

Sex is beautiful, fulfilling – and good exercise. No revelations here; the benefits of good sex have been known and written about for a long time. But what of the theory that sex can improve your health, strengthen your immune system and prevent the onset of disease? When sex is enhanced by aromatherapy, all this is also true.

This is not a book on ‘how to get a man’ or ‘how to score with women.’ It is a book for lovers. You can be as hedonistic as the ancient Greeks and Romans, as worshipful as the Taoist Chinese or Tantric Hindu. The recipes and descriptions in this book will help you use aromatic oils to scent and massage your body and that of your partner. You can indulge all your senses, in the privacy of the bedroom.

While writing this book I had to stop and ask myself the question, ‘Why am I writing a book about sex in this age of AIDS? Am I exploring an issue 30 years out of date? Am I being irresponsible?’ A bit of reflection, however, gave me my answer. There is no reason for sex to stop being fun just because it needs to be ‘safe’. And isn’t the safest sex that which takes place within a loving monogamous relationship? Monogamy need never be boring. Sex need never be boring: each of us has an innate need of pleasure and fulfilment, as well as a need to give pleasure to another. What greater or keener pleasure is there than that of sex?

Sex and aromatherapy marry together perfectly. Imagine how, hundreds and even thousands of years ago, lovers rubbed scented oils onto each other’s body, experiencing the fulfilment of all their senses. Their sense of smell delighted in the wonderful perfume of natural essences intermingling with the body’s own perfume; their sense of touch revelled in the feel of massaging their loved one or in being massaged by him or her; their eyes beheld the erotic sight of oil glistening on naked skin; their ears took in spoken words of pleasure – and when they kissed, the fifth sense was fulfilled, for what finer taste is there than that of the lips of your lover?

I believe that good sex is life-enhancing, as is aromatherapy. Even when sexual intercourse is not involved, the physical pleasure of touching, of intimate body contact in the form of massage – all this equals happiness, and happiness is a potent medicine. Joy and pleasure send the right stimuli to the body cells to keep them healthy. By using essential oils on a daily basis we create within ourselves a state of health and harmony.

You may already be a keen advocate of aromatherapy and appreciate its benefits but if this book is your introduction to essential oils, you have a treat in store. Enjoy the sensual pleasures that lie ahead. Fragrant essences not only excite the senses and lift the emotions but also work on a deeper level, to nourish and protect the cells of the body.

Aromatherapy can be used to address many health problems, enabling us, for example, to break with the antibiotic habit. In recent years the researcher Clive Wood has looked at the connection between mind, brain and the immune system. He calls this study ‘psycho-neuro-immunology’. We know, for instance, that people can truly die of a broken heart – such is the power of our emotions on our physical being. Surely we must also be able to use this power to maintain a strong and healthy body.

Aromatherapy can also bring about a peaceful state of mind, which in itself can bring harmony to a relationship. Many Eastern texts, when referring to meditation, stress the importance of deep breathing. They say that the mind follows the breath. Within our polluted environment we tend to be shallow breathers. When experiencing a delightful aromatherapy massage or when soaking in a deliciously fragrant bath, we automatically take deeper breaths to savour the beauty of the scents around us.

In this book I have tried to present practical tips and recipes and alternative methods of treating sexual problems as well as offering a brief history of the erotic use of aromatics since ancient times. I have also discussed the theory that inside every woman there exist attributes of several goddesses. Aphrodite, being the goddess of love and sensuality, is the one this book is most interested in revealing. By letting go of fears and preconditioning, and using essential oils with imagination and confidence, every woman can allow this part of herself to emerge and flourish.