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How to Make Anyone Fall in Love With You: 85 Proven Techniques for Success
Leil Lowndes
In this irresistible, witty guide, internationally-acclaimed relationships expert Leil Lowndes reveals the tips and secrets to helping you capture the heart of anyone you choose. This is your short-cut to sure-fire success in love.How To Make Anyone Fall In Love With You is packed full of information, social research and psychological insight into human behaviour, sexuality, body language, and the differences in how men and women think and communicate.You’ll learn exactly how to use the secrets of attraction in your own life. Leil will show you:• How to awaken primal sexual feelings in your partner,• How to give first date butterflies,• How to make a lasting impression,• When to play hard to get – and when not to,• How to learn in one hour what will drive you partner wild in bed,• And – in short – how to make them fall head-over-heels in love with you.Repackaged with a stunning contemporary design, How To Make Anyone Fall In Love With You makes turning a small spark of attraction into an all-consuming passion easy.
To fulfil the promise of the title,
How to Make Anyone Fall in Love with You offers 85 techniques based on scientific studies into the nature of romantic love.
Contents
Cover (#u9bb585ad-0e57-515c-9b33-2d0f956b16c4)
Title Page (#u55792b68-8778-5532-b624-39f5c9a7f810)
1. Anyone? Yes, Practically Anyone (#ua2b366bb-e47f-520d-b7e3-679e6d8f6077)
Science ‘Discovers’ Sex (#ulink_51aeb874-0f59-5fbd-bf8c-6ba36cc1268b)
How More Research Was Compiled (#ulink_0a66cf09-e248-5350-959b-099e64c74cf2)
How the Techniques Were Developed (#ulink_2028a98f-b357-5845-a85d-82a81643644e)
How I Tested the Techniques (#ulink_47dc953b-e456-52c1-9f29-9ffc4d6497d3)
2. What Makes People Fall in Love? (#ub4d8fdd8-6a47-5b91-880b-02f924fe0386)
1. First Impressions (#ulink_7b921a0c-b8cf-5711-9a20-f902bd11c711)
2. Similar Character, Complementary Needs (#ulink_e60e3c7e-99a3-59d6-a081-2f206f5df87c)
3. Equity (#ulink_1cc9ee51-21f3-5753-96d5-fa789bcb3965)
4. Ego (#ulink_52ebc35e-4587-59c9-b3a2-099385c4745a)
5. Early-Date Gender-Menders (#ulink_33e8fcf5-9645-5f61-9755-b2f59229d07f)
6. ℞ for Sex (#ulink_0aaaf890-8446-50b5-984e-b627959af565)
3. The Physical Side of Falling in Love (#uea8ac2b1-ce79-54bd-993f-90b8447bb16e)
‘Why Do My Insides Go All Funny?’
‘Does Somebody Have to be Pea-Brained to Fall in Love with Me?’ (#ulink_43de8a4e-c42c-5a31-8a5a-8771db898c9a)
‘Why Do We Fall in Love with One Person and Not Another?’ (#ulink_c02abb73-de48-54d8-9cb8-04ede59a58b2)
‘How Can These Little Things Start Love?’ (#ulink_5a4f5e31-19a7-55ab-8afe-b5a019d38af8)
4. Where Are All the Good Men and Women? (#uef24022f-d0b1-5991-b2f9-8cb4aa9fa8fe)
Looking for Love in All the Wrong Places
5. Does Love at First Sight Exist? (#u4cf05e13-b3df-5968-b0b9-79457364a203)
Part One: First Impressions (#u93ee46b7-9859-5bbd-9519-42cb49a2bbfe)
6. How to Make a Dynamite First Impression (#u71077ff4-685d-5560-8512-baaad2731b91)
First Impressions Last Forever
Be Ready for Love – Always! (#ulink_3f0dc295-f2f8-517a-8ae8-ba29d9bb5764)
Stay Psychologically ‘Fit to Kill’ (#ulink_60bd3ae9-cea1-578d-9fc4-26c390127f81)
7. How to Ignite Love at First Sight (#ufdc3a739-9117-528c-bc1b-6229369ae934)
How Much Eye Contact Does it Take to Imitate Love? (#ulink_b929cf2b-60b7-5b9e-a57c-1906ab308ce1)
How to Get Sexy ‘Bedroom Eyes’ (#ulink_d6f72ac8-ce41-5e35-b48a-f7347d48644e)
How to Awaken Primal, Unsettling, Sexy Feelings in Your Quarry (#ulink_c0adea59-2fc9-5466-a9f9-c7bea4854b04)
Naughty Eyes Are So Nice (#ulink_9e686680-cc73-51e3-a8b1-d62866ce505a)
8. Your First Approach (#u65abc0ba-2d2d-5556-b8a2-b8c122facf1d)
The Gentle Art of Pickup (Not for Men Only)
Hunters, Make the First Move … Fast (#ulink_29cea9db-07d7-5b01-b2e5-2e277a63e1d4)
Huntresses, Make the Fast Move … First (#ulink_3ce387b1-7134-5d28-ad23-8c5aa4c2c183)
First Moves That Work for Women (#ulink_bfe06348-0167-572f-8ada-9bb32a3b87b8)
9. Your First Body Language (#u22fa0dc3-64ac-56f0-939c-574ae773c69d)
Let Your Body Do the Talking
The Dance of Intimacy (#ulink_b2075798-f1d2-5b41-a791-ffd45b0635fc)
When You Are Quarry (#ulink_bb97523c-fcd8-5fb4-a93a-05ea0cde4d35)
The Word That Can Save Your Relationship (#ulink_3c7e5f72-f4fd-5d75-8c26-dec625131d9f)
‘But This Is So Basic!’ (#ulink_f4cfda5c-33b8-5662-a214-dd7a9f117d76)
10. Your First Conversation (#u0bb528f0-4314-507e-95c4-96168e3a3ff9)
Conversation Is Making Beautiful Music Together
Conversation Is Like Making Love (#ulink_6b007817-45f6-5a0e-9ffd-2f72ac72b33f)
Conversation Is Like Selling (#ulink_afab2b41-e1da-59d5-842a-7be402b30a14)
How to Know What Topic Turns Your Quarry On (#ulink_23a637a3-6dde-5439-a54e-40be027d39f2)
How to Fool Your Quarry into Thinking You Two Are Already in Love (#ulink_c8034183-0414-55e9-af3a-53e254cc286d)
Get Even Closer by Giving the Gift of Intimacy (#ulink_f218f044-177d-53b9-bb85-ab68988570aa)
Make Your Lifestyle ‘Fit’ Your Quarry’s Lovemap (#ulink_5e7e506c-b11a-5bf0-a06f-7b392cbaa628)
11. Your First Date (#uea6842b6-83ee-5eb3-87d4-5a4b332a2237)
The Game Begins in Earnest
‘How Soon Should I Make My Move?’ (#ulink_84a8738f-331c-5010-837e-0a15484c1c41)
‘Playing Hard to Get – Should I, or Shouldn’t I?’ (#ulink_cb1fbb1a-23d4-5e39-8b6d-48b8fdab9878)
The Scientifically Proven Best First Date (#ulink_67ebcf75-1b11-5d29-a728-18e1b5b1af9b)
Give Your Quarry First-Date Butterflies (#ulink_0c1c5a0c-0e16-536a-bc6e-9f4c28dc7b4d)
Plant the Seeds of Similarity (#ulink_c7741044-518a-5026-af77-eeb33e9d2bea)
First-Date Restaurant Smarts (#ulink_419fc64c-6ef4-5320-bea3-399ab6514786)
Hunters, Some Spit and Polish for Your P’s and Q’s (#ulink_8636f2d8-8084-5531-8df9-3ab2f96ecaa8)
Huntresses, Forgive His Foibles (#ulink_ef84636d-3642-5ccb-a17e-2acc49dc6b9f)
First-Date Duds (#ulink_330485e2-a903-5f19-9319-331146a82ee8)
‘I Haven’t Got a Thing to Wear’ (#ulink_5b1762fa-cc33-5aeb-abc8-3407a090c68f)
Part Two: Similar Character, Complementary Needs (#u151f7005-a00a-5c4a-8888-e0ad5c5bb00f)
12. ‘It’s You and Me, Baby, Alone Against This Mad, Mad World’ (#ub63140bb-2ab1-5580-b808-540d5f228bb8)
Similarity … and a Touch of Difference (Just a Touch) (#ulink_81ddbf89-f4c5-5faa-8295-e80fd13c67d3)
13. How to Establish Subconscious Similarity (#u80c2fba2-63cd-5629-8287-bd9987e85795)
How to Instantly Make Your Quarry Feel, ‘Why, We’re Just Alike!’
Words to Give Your Quarry ‘That Family Feeling’ (#ulink_5d90728a-c7ab-534a-9ea4-8df26ffb1012)
‘We Even Speak the Same (Body) Language’ (#ulink_cdc33c83-7183-5f1b-8cb3-1856c9a9846d)
14. How to Establish Conscious Similarity (#ub58fe7dd-1250-5e1c-bd96-48a50318677a)
The Three Crucial Conscious Similarities
Let’s Talk About Our Relationship – Not! (#ulink_ab188af3-be4c-5321-9fa0-c550e38eee0e)
15. How to Establish Complementary Needs (#u1c3122b8-935b-588c-a9fc-283bebffb5b1)
‘I Got Just What You Need, Sweetheart’
Part Three: Ego (#ua45bfdd9-a087-559f-b649-44b85f051749)
16. The World Revolves Around You, My Quarry (#u0114a65f-93dc-5544-b42f-e0446e123fbc)
Ego Massage Is a Highly Skilled Craft (#ulink_ff6bafb5-4ac1-5de9-8661-735d52bf262b)
17. Step One: Silent Praise (#u76b151ec-b58b-501f-9f3f-fc3deb611b1c)
Let Your Body Do the Praising
18. Step Two: Empathy (#ued3f64fb-2ff2-5108-89fd-10800a2d59cf)
‘I Can Identify with That!’
Lovers Share Intimate Details (#ulink_2b60af37-f102-53af-8439-858b63ce9686)
Lovers Have Private Jokes (#ulink_32c4507e-78bc-5c76-83ea-8c57749d3d29)
19. Step Three: Admiration (#u4e93ad3a-aba2-54e6-a3f8-77c09b239971)
‘Oh, Darling, You Did an Absolutely Superb Job Slicing These Mushrooms’
20. Step Four: The Implied Compliment (#u7ded910a-b1f0-56b9-87cd-3418150d9cbb)
‘You’re Much Too Young to Remember This, But …’
The Bull’s-Eye Booster: ‘I Just Love What You Like About Yourself’ (#ulink_eeb4b302-d074-57d3-b9d9-17c8f7b6adc3)
21. Step Five: The Big Guns (#u84533b02-b783-50dc-abc7-a23d8e4f6104)
‘YOU Are the Most Fascinating Person I’ve Ever Met’
‘What Does Giving a Killer Compliment Do for Me?’ (#ulink_f543d193-ace8-5008-8a69-d710bbc4c0b6)
22. Fine-Tuning the Ego-Machine (#u4343fa39-bc9b-5343-b032-f5d0fdcce8db)
‘Wait a Minute. Does Everybody Like Compliments?’
Knee-Jerk Praise: ‘What You Just Did Was Fabulous’ (#ulink_f879a886-bd64-573e-a05e-b607a02665d5)
